a dating life
If you want a dating life that's free from disaster, you need to
invest in a little insurance. As hurricane victims know, it does no
good to buy insurance after the storm has wreaked its damage. Here's
how to get your own dating insurance package together:
1. Be ready.
Some folks approach life as if they were jumping into a cold swimming
pool: They squeeze their eyes shut, hold their nose and jump. Who
knows if they know how to swim?
It's far better to go into dating with your eyes open and your senses
sharp. Take some time and review your current situation. What needs
attention? Your physical self? Your surroundings? Your fears? Taking
care of yourself first will help ensure your future success in love.
2. Get a life.
Nothing is more unattractive than someone with nothing to offer. While
having space in your life for a partner is important, too much space
will seem overwhelming to another. It's not up to a future partner to
give you the life you haven't made for yourself.
Get out and get active! One of the best strategies for getting
invitations is to give them. Try entertaining. If the thought of
throwing a party scares you more than dating, you can invite people to
all kinds of events as your guest. (But you might as well get your
domicile ready for visitors. Where do you expect to entertain a
sweetie?)
3. Enhance your good luck.
Many singles are so discouraged about the process of finding love that
they can't help but feel unlucky. And most folks feel that there is
little they can do to influence Lady Luck.
But research has found that is not so. What you think and do has
enormous effects on bringing you good -- or bad -- luck. Taking steps
to increase your luck will help you find the best of the best. Listen
to your lucky hunches. Maximize chance opportunities by varying your
routine. Above all, expect good fortune in your life. What have you
got to lose? More bad luck?
4. Be prepared to tell the hard stuff.
Often singles are so worried about how to tell bad news to a new
partner that it gets in the way of doing any dating at all. We all
have pasts, and none of us gets much beyond the age of 21 without
accumulating a bit of baggage that we are not so proud of.
Part of getting ready to date is dealing with your truth and coming to
terms with your life so far -- and what you have learned in the
process. Tell the hard stuff now, before you are put on spot.
5. Toughen up.
Do you want to avoid rejection entirely? Well, you'd better stay off
dating sites, because rejection is the name of the game. Because you
are jumping into a very large pool of potential candidates, you will
be saying "no" to many perfectly nice people, and they will be saying
(or acting) "no" to you. Saying and getting "no's" is part of getting
to that big "YES!" If the no's are too much for you, you are in big
trouble right now.
Posted by none at 5:09 AM 0 comments
Friday, February 1, 2008
Toughen up
Do you want to avoid rejection entirely? Well, you'd better stay off
dating sites, because rejection is the name of the game. Because you
are jumping into a very large pool of potential candidates, you will
be saying "no" to many perfectly nice people, and they will be saying
(or acting) "no" to you. Saying and getting "no's" is part of getting
to that big "YES!" If the no's are too much for you, you are in big
trouble right now.
zodiac answer
Posted by none at 8:36 AM 0 comments
Be prepared to tell the hard stuff
Often singles are so worried about how to tell bad news to a new
partner that it gets in the way of doing any dating at all. We all
have pasts, and none of us gets much beyond the age of 21 without
accumulating a bit of baggage that we are not so proud of.
Part of getting ready to date is dealing with your truth and coming to
terms with your life so far -- and what you have learned in the
process. Tell the hard stuff now, before you are put on spot.
zodiac answer
Posted by none at 8:33 AM 0 comments
Enhance your good luck
Many singles are so discouraged about the process of finding love that
they can't help but feel unlucky. And most folks feel that there is
little they can do to influence Lady Luck.
But research has found that is not so. What you think and do has
enormous effects on bringing you good -- or bad -- luck. Taking steps
to increase your luck will help you find the best of the best. Listen
to your lucky hunches. Maximize chance opportunities by varying your
routine. Above all, expect good fortune in your life. What have you
got to lose? More bad luck? For more suggestions, check out my Top 10
Ways to Get Lucky at Love
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love sign
Posted by none at 8:29 AM 0 comments
Get a life
If you want a dating life that's free from disaster..
Nothing is more unattractive than someone with nothing to offer. While
having space in your life for a partner is important, too much space
will seem overwhelming to another. It's not up to a future partner to
give you the life you haven't made for yourself.
Get out and get active! One of the best strategies for getting
invitations is to give them. Try entertaining. If the thought of
throwing a party scares you more than dating, you can invite people to
all kinds of events as your guest. (But you might as well get your
domicile ready for visitors. Where do you expect to entertain a
sweetie?)
this is Art
Posted by none at 8:25 AM 0 comments
Be ready
If you want a dating life that's free from disaster..
Some folks approach life as if they were jumping into a cold swimming
pool: They squeeze their eyes shut, hold their nose and jump. Who
knows if they know how to swim?
It's far better to go into dating with your eyes open and your senses
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